Saturday, October 6, 2012

Bullying someone by telling them they are gay

B"H
This morning my son told me something quite shocking. He said that he is being told he is "gay" by some other children. He is nine years old. I find that quite disgusting. He was crying to me when he told me last night and again this morning. He said to me,"I am not gay mommy. I want to get married." So I said to him,"of course you are going to get married one day. You are not gay what ever other people say about you. They are being spiteful. They are probably jealous because you are a very good looking boy and they are envious."
He was quite upset. The more things like this happen, the more I want to home school to protect my son and other kids from the rubbish of our corrupt contemporary society where anything goes and people are too frightened to set boundaries on behaviours that are anti-social or damaging. I taught at a school once where there were three gay teachers. One of them was the principal of the primary school. She had a child by donor sperm obviously because her partner was a woman - her ex high school teacher. Now one has to wonder if that young woman was groomed to be gay in high school by this teacher who was senior in age to her by about twenty years. That is why I am so wary of all this politically correct 'gay' stuff. Who knows how some of the more unscrupulous of the very vocal politically active gays are grooming young adolescents to be "gay" and define themselves as gay because they have become confused.
I can see the confusion and hurt set up in my son as he is rejected by peers and taunted as 'gay' and then he starts to wonder who he really is. Then along comes this 'nice gay man' who says to him 'it is ok son. I am gay you are ok. You are one of us.' And hey presto you have forced a child emotionally on a part to confused gender identity because everyone needs to feel accepted by someone. Only if you are a pig headed heterosexual like myself, no amount of bully behaviour and tactics will make the person gay.
It is the vulnerable ones like my son that I and others have to watch out for. It is hard to be normal in this world as it is today. We are being bullied into accepting the abnormal as the 'norm'. Let's fight back and stand up for our values.

8 comments:

Zoe Brain said...

Almost as bad as being told they're a Jew, right?

I'm sorry your son has experienced some of the hatred actual gay kids endure every day. But that's just "acceptable collateral damage" according to the anti-gay movement.

Please have a look at yourself, and ask just how much of this hatred that *no* little boy or girl should have to endure is a natural, and inescapable, consequence of your own views and advocacy.

My son is Intersex - born with a body not quite 100% male. I know your anger, and frustration, at this kind of thing.

Unlike you, I don't unwittingly encourage it.

Ilana Leeds said...

And by the way being called a Jew doesn't phase me, I am proud to be a Jew, not ashamed at all. I have alligator skin as far as names are concerned, you pathetic sick individual. Frankly you really need help. For someone to go out of their way to hurt another person like that, boy oh boy, do you need help. Go get it.

matt said...

it gets better

Ilana Leeds said...

B"h
Oh really what next? You will kill my kid and then say it is my fault, you freaks. I detect the smirk behind your comments and that proves how sick you are the lot of you. My child has never hurt you.
In boarding school I used to cut my wrists and self harm because they used to say I was gay and they called me a lesbian because I was very shy with boys and it was the seventies. I knew I was not a lesbian and I would rather be dead than one. Anyway life and experiences like being raped taught me to toughen up and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
I don't self harm any more because I had therapy and learnt to love myself and I know who I am so if you want to play your sick games you take me on, not my kid and I will teach you a lesson you will never forget.
You and Matt who ever you are hiding behind your keyboards are a sick pair of cowardly pups.
To be honest you touch my child any of you and you will end up dead. If one stinking pervert dies and I end up in jail for murder, I don't care. At least I have saved my child and others from abuse by perverts.
Anyway we are safe from you now. None of you know where we live and my child can heal in peace. You are a bunch of vile, sadistic perverts. That's what your lot like isn't it? A bit of s and m and you don't care whether it is adults or children. Go crawl back into your holes, you morons.

Ilana Leeds said...

B"h
Oh really what next? You will kill my kid and then say it is my fault, you freaks. I detect the smirk behind your comments and that proves how sick you are the lot of you. My child has never hurt you.
In boarding school I used to cut my wrists and self harm because they used to say I was gay and they called me a lesbian because I was very shy with boys and it was the seventies. I knew I was not a lesbian and I would rather be dead than one. Anyway life and experiences like being raped taught me to toughen up and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
I don't self harm any more because I had therapy and learnt to love myself and I know who I am so if you want to play your sick games you take me on, not my kid and I will teach you a lesson you will never forget.
You and Matt who ever you are hiding behind your keyboards are a sick pair of cowardly pups.
To be honest you touch my child any of you and you will end up dead. If one stinking pervert dies and I end up in jail for murder, I don't care. At least I have saved my child and others from abuse by perverts.
Anyway we are safe from you now. None of you know where we live and my child can heal in peace. You are a bunch of vile, sadistic perverts. That's what your lot like isn't it? A bit of s and m and you don't care whether it is adults or children. Go crawl back into your holes, you morons.

matt said...

not everyone is "out to get you Llana, I was bullied as a child myself, and for me yes things did get better as I got older, but this type of bullying happens to all kids whatever their sexual orientation is, and it doesnt matter what your countries poilitcal stance is on gays rights, children will be children and they can be very cruel and mean when they bully other kids

Ilana Leeds said...

B"h
What BS. The glee which was obvious in your post was totally misplaced. You are another sicko. Go and get help for your mental problems. I did years ago for my self harm tendencies when stressed and I am a far stronger person for it. You enjoy causing pain to others emotional pain but I have news for you, I have learnt to deal with your type of abusive And emotionally destructive personalities. You are pathetic. Keep away from us.

cat. said...

You know almost all same sex attracted young people get bullied at some stage of their lives?
Bullied children are left traumatised in one way or another and often enough the bullying gets so bad they commit suicide.
Approximately 30% of all same sex attracted people will commit suicide (not to mention those who attempt suicide) as a result of being made to feel wrong, different and isolated.
People like you are to blame for this, how dare you spread your ridiculous hate speech to your children and others who may look up to you. Having the point of view that "I was not a lesbian and I would rather be dead than one" is completely and utterly offensive and detrimental to the gay rights movement.